Welcome to Love in Recovery, the Recovery Dating Website for Sober Singles that offers Friendship, Support, Love and Hope that ",The Promises", are coming true for us. Like no other Recovery Dating Website, LoveInRecovery permits you to search for other Sober Singles by your own individual 12 Step Program of Recovery. LoveInRecovery is designed for Sober Singles who are secure in their Sobriety and are living in and practising the Principles of 12 Step Programs OR just living a sober lifestyle.
If you are not presently involved with a 12 Step Program but think you may have a problem in a particular area of your life, you are welcome to join our Global Community and find Friendship and Support from our Members who have been where you are and understand what you are going through. If it is Love you are seeking, we suggest to our Members to have at least ONE YEAR’S RECOVERY TIME before pursuing a Romantic Relationship.
Find Friends and Romance (Globally or Locally), meet your Soulmate and Let the PROMISES come true for you!!
Our sobriety is the most significant aspect of our lives.
Without our sobriety, we have nothing!
“Keep Your Recovery Very first,
In order to make it Last!”
*It is suggested by AA and most 12 Step Groups of Recovery to wait one year before coming in into a romantic relationship. In the course of that year, LoveInRecovery can help its members to find friendship, support and hope that “The Promises” will come true for us.
In the United States alone, there are millions of singles involved in one (or more) of over 50 12-Step Programs. They are hoping to meet others like themselves for help and support, developing friendships along the way and possibly finding that previously elusive and everlasting romance.
Just looking for joy, laughter and recreation? Those of us who are seeking to improve our quality of life, free from the chemical dependency or other behavioral issues we suffered from in the past now have a place to go. When we are set free from our addictions, our minds are clearing and our hearts are healing. The possibilities of what life now holds for us are endless. The desires we may have had many years past can now become realities and to have others or that “special someone” to share them with is a bounty. When the fog starts to lift we come out on the other side, stronger and healthier and moving towards our desires. We are ready for positive switch in our lives with the capability to make better choices and we’re blessed to know there is a place we can go where friendly, loving people are antsy to meet us with arms opened broad.
“The Promises” are now becoming true. and we at LoveInRecovery are blessed to have you here with us.”
(from pages 83-84 of the Alcoholics Anonymous book)
If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are half way through.
We are going to know a fresh freedom and a fresh happiness.
We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it.
We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know peace.
No matter how far down the scale we have gone, we will see how our practice can benefit others.
That feeling of uselessness and self-pity will vanish.
We will lose interest in selfish things and build up interest in our fellows.
Self seeking will slip away.
Our entire attitude and outlook upon life will switch.
Fear of people and of economic insecurity will leave us.
We will intuitively know how to treat situations which used to baffle us.
We will abruptly realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves.