Farmers finding love on niche online dating site – CBS News

For country folks, dating has its own particular issues. In puny communities, everyone already seems to know one another, and finding someone from outside your town can mean searching long and broad.

But, as Michelle Miller reported, there’s one dating site that aims to help you find a date quickly, so you won’t have to wait until the cows come home.

When Morgan Welper was searching for her soul mate, she knew exactly what she dreamed. Welper recalled, “I was looking for a dairy farmer. . I like cows. I had grown up on a farm myself and I dreamed that lifestyle for myself and for my kids.”

And she discovered she wasn’t finding that fellow in the usual places.

Welper said, “I could have gone out to the bars, and I did. I had horrible practices.”

So Welper went online to a dating website called Her profile picture — a photo of herself with a cow — left no doubt about whom she was hoping to meet. The photo caught the eye of Nate Kliebenstein.

Kliebenstein, asked if it’s hard for a dairy farmer to meet a doll, said, “Yeah, you don’t exactly get out very much.”

The two began to see each other. Welper would travel almost three hours on weekends to meet Kliebenstein at his farm in little Darlington, Wisconsin.

Their dates were not exactly typical, instead of a bar or restaurant, they’d meet in the milking salon.

Welper said, “We’d always have the radio playing on in here so if a slow, sappy song would come on, we would like, slow dance with each other.” was launched in 2005, after Ohio-based marketer Jerry Miller noticed a problem among some of his rural clients. Miller said, “If you walk out your front door in Fresh York City, there’s Ten,000 people within a half-a-mile. When you walk out your front door out in the country, there might be one person within Ten miles.”

Once ridiculed as the last resort for losers, online dating has exploded. Since the sites launched, the two largest dating sites — and eHarmony — boast a combined 151 million users. And newer, niche sites are permitting people to weed through those numbers to find exactly what they’re seeking.

Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist, said, “Psychologists truly know that we tend to gravitate to people who are from the same socioeconomic background, same level of intelligence, same level of good looks, same religious and social values and somebody with the lifestyle that you’re used to.”

Kliebenstein said, “When you’re marrying someone that farms, you’re marrying their career, not just the person.”

After dating for two years, Kleibenstein and Welper got engaged, and then married. Last fall, they had a daughter — Evelyn.

Miller added that now has one million users — more than the founders ever imagined possible.

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